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Saturday, March 13, 2010

He never says he loves me

Consider a few questions when your man doesn't say: "I Love you"

1. How long have you been dating?

If you have been dating for less than a few months, then you should relax. Love takes time, do not rush it! If it has been several years and he has never said I love you, this could be a red flag. This is when you need to sit down and start really understanding how he feels about you.

There's nothing wrong with waiting to say "I love you" until you really feel it.

He could be taking his time to get to know you, or he could be at a stage of his life where he is not ready for commitment.

2. Does he express his love in other ways?
People have different ways of expressing love. He may express his love through kisses or asking you to spend time with him. Remember that many men are not as verbal as women, so be sure that you recongnize when he expresses love in non verbal ways.

3. How often do you see each other
Building a strong relationship takes time, and even though you may have been dating for a few months, if you only see each other once or twice a week, it could take a very long time to fall in love.

Consider this: some womanizer easily tell dozens of women they love them, without truly caring for them deeply. Remember, those three words could easily be said by someone who does not feel it, so it is better for you to judge a man in other ways.

Some people do not want to express their love until they feel comfortable and ready to give it away. Other men can easily say "I love you" without feeling uncomfortable.

If you are looking for love, don't rely on only one expression from your man !

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