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Friday, June 11, 2010

Molding Your Man

Some people mistakenly think that they will take the man they have and all his imperfections and "Mold Him" into the person they want him to be.

This could be in the form of: Improving the way he dresses, talks, what he likes to do, who he hangs out with, what he does for a living or what kind of car he drives.

Don't do this!

Do not expect that your man is your blank canvas to create a masterpiece. Instead, understand that if he stays exactly the way he is and he is this person in 20 years you will love him. This is true love.

Why should you not try to change someone?
1. It may work for a little while, but they will probably resort back to the person they are at the core.
2. It makes him feel that he has to be something else for you to love him
3. You may become very disappointed when it doesn't happen and you have wasted time

Give suggestions, support him to be his best, but do not expect your man to become someone else.

Best luck, Ladies!

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