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Saturday, February 25, 2012

5 simple ways to make him love you even more

1. Give him space
Don't be one of those naggy girlfriends who needs to see and hear from him everyday. Get your own damn life!  If you've got your own stuff going on, you are going to be so much more sexy! Please you will have more to talk about and it will keep your spark alive.

2. Make his life more interesting
A man can appreciate a woman he can learn from. Before you meet with him, read something interesting: a news article, or a fact about one his favorite sports. If he loves cars, learn some facts about the most expensive car in the world OR the fastest car in the world

3. Compliment Him (but don't overdo it)
There is nothing more sexy than a woman who says to a man, "You make me a better person" OR "Wow, you look sexy today" or "You give good advice".This boost his self esteem and he will want to be around you more!
Oh ya and make sure it is genuine. Don't come across as fake: that's a major turn off.

4. Pull out your credit card
Pay for the bill, ladies!
Think about it, what kind of idiot guy would want to pay for all your crap all the time? A guy can really fall for a girl that is willing to pull her part in the relationship and that includes financially. Make it clear that  you like when he takes you out, but also surprise him with a special place he's never been.

5. Be a lady
When you respect yourself, he will respect you. Say "Please" and "Thank you". Let others go before you. Dress elegantly when you see him. Buy quality clothes that last. Have an opinion but don't get angry if he doesn't agree. Hug him when you see him. Smile. Don't be lazy.  Take care of yourself. Get facials. When you look beautiful for him, it shows you care for him as well. When you show him you love him, he will love you even more.

Lots of Love to the Ladies of the World!

Marry someone less attractive than you!

So, I love doing research -- especially when it comes to relationships and marriage. I found an interesting article that you should all pay attention to:

http://web.knoxnews.com/pdf/040208marriage-attractivenessstudy.pdf


Celine Dion  is way hotter than her hubby. But guess what -- she's in love and he treats her like a queen!!


Basically here's the conclusion: The more attractive the wife is compared to the husband, the happier the marriage. Perhaps this could be that an attractive man feels he can find something better elsewhere, whereas a man that is less attractive is appreciative and more supportive of the wife.  He thinks, "I've got to treat this woman right or she'll be out of here".

Likewise, because a woman may not put as much emphasis on physical attraction, to her having a supportive, attentive husband makes her a very happy lady! Her (less attractive) husband is more positive and accepting of her, she in turn is more supportive and loving towards him.


Now this is very interesting. It basically implies if you want a happy marriage, then marry someone uglier than you!  This doesn't mean marry someone ugly. It means marry someone less attractive than you. In 5 years, what's going to matter isn't how well he photographs, and whether just his look sends chills down your spine. On the contrary what will matter is : Does he treat you well (and do you have the maturity level to appreciate it)

So, if you are in your 20s you might think, this is crazy -- I need to be with someone that is very good looking. But by the time you've had your heart broken a few times and you reach your late/early 30s  you may begin to realize that having a positive healthy relationship is far more valuable than some tasty eye candy.

I hope you all consider this while dating and realize that if you really are in it for the long haul, then you should understand the implications of putting huge emphasis on  good looks.

Saturday, January 14, 2012

He loves you when he's tender towards you

A man who really has a heart for you, is a gentleman.

Perhaps he slowly brushes your hair out of your face and looks you directly in the eyes; maybe when you are about to slip, reaches out to pull you up and save you from your fall.

He may even open doors, hold your hand to walk across the street, compliment your look, or give you a tender hug before saying good-bye at the airport. 

It could be a very small gesture, but it displays what is going on in his heart!

On the other hand, if he is rough with you, easily angered, frustrated by little things like you being a few minutes late, or not buying the right kind of his favorite drinks - if he can be rough and unforgiving or he makes you carry the groceries and doesn't offer to help these are little signs his love for you isn't so great.

:)

I hope you all find a man who loves you deeply!

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Signs you are meant to be together

5 few signs you were meant to be together.

1. Your sense of humor is similar. You get each other's jokes!

2. Similar Backgrounds (Educational, or Geographic). Although this isn't always the case, having a similar upbringing means you can relate to each other. You grew up in the same area, attended the same university, or you have mutual friends.



3. The relationship developed naturally. When relationships take little effort, they are often meant to be! You shouldn't have to wonder if he's the one, (because that means he isn't). You shouldn't be crying regularly over the relationship. You shouldn't have to force yourself out of guilt to stay with someone.


4. You value the same things. Is education extremely important to you? Or hanging out with friends? What about spending time with your parents? Maybe he likes to buy the finest clothes, and you are a cheap!  If you both have similar core desires, this is a very good sign you are meant to be together.

5. Chemistry. You meet someone and it feels likes you've known them forever. You have a lot to talk about, and you find him very interesting.  You feel drawn to each other, pulled together by an unexplainable force.


What does Love Look Like? Healthy Couples in Hollywood

One of the best ways to better understand if your man loves you is to study healthy relationships.

Here are my favorite celebrity couples who display their true love for each other in public.
I've included a few quotes from the couples.

Heidi Klum and Seal
I guess these guys are no longer together. :( But while they lasted, they were an ideal couple.
Says Heidi when the two first met: " It was kind of like two magnets" . I have heard this from couples who could feel the chemistry instantly. They just "knew" that there was something there, it was natural and not forced.



She notes they:
- Have fun together
- They respect each other (Heidi sees Seal as a "Man" -- having the whole package)
- They give each other FREEDOM. (They don't try to control each other)
- They put the other person first --
- They are committed to each other





They are probably the happiest couple in Hollywood!




 Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon

I love this couple, because Nick gushes about his wife publicly. This is true love -- when  you brag about your partner!

During an interview, he talks about his huge crush on Mariah before the couple had even met. "You saw how good she looks" he says of her.
This couples has been married for a few years, and again when they met there was immediate chemistry.




So, what can we learn from this?
If a man praises you to others , he loves you.
If there is instant chemistry, this can definitely blossom into love
A man that respects you , loves you!



Saturday, February 5, 2011

Stupid things you do that makes him not love you

I highly recommend checking out the book "

10 WAYS THAT WOMEN MESS UP THEIR LIVES"


I know some highly intelligent women who have made some seriously dumb decisions when it comes to men.

This left them with lots of heartache, loneliness(since they wouldn't move on), and very sad for a very long time.

Here are some tips
1. Don't choose you man based on how hot he is or how much money he makes. Doing this could mean ending up with a man cheating on you, or a man so busy with his work he never has time for you or your children.
Don't select a guy for the wrong reasons!
Also, most often your true intentions will surface. You can't fake love - and the more time goes on and you hit really touch times, the more it's hard to stay in a relationships sans love.


2. Don't expect your man to be your whole life.
This will mean  high expectations for him, and for you in the end unhappiness. This means you should find out who you are, and be solid in yourself before expecting a man to fulfill you.
Become an individual and be proud of who you are!

3.Be CHOOSY!! 
Additionally, picking anyone and then wanting marriage quickly is a huge turn off for a guy. They want to know they are special, not just someone you can make babies with.


4.Staying in a bad relationship/situation
This is a huge dumb dumb move.
You see girls think that although right now they are mistreated or he's too busy or he doesn't want to marry or he's an alcoholic, means that "ONE DAY" he won't. 


Sorry girl. That's just not the way life works.

This is how you end up still single and lonely, because you didn't move on to a man who doesn't love you.

You have got to mentally realize that if he's doing this now he will likely be doing the same thing to you (99.999999999999999999999999999999999% likelihood, and yes this is very scientific) years from  now.

Additionally, the more he mistreats  you and the more you put up with it, the more he doesn't respect you and really doesn't fall in love.

Conclusion: KNOW WHEN TO LEAVE 

5.  Sex DOES NOT EQUAL love (Sex != Love) 
This means that just cuz he's loves getting in the sheet with you doesn't mean he want to be your boyfriend, husband, or the father of your kids.









Stupid things you do that makes him not love you

I highly recommend checking out the book "

10 WAYS THAT WOMEN MESS UP THEIR LIVES"


I know some highly intelligent women who have made some seriously dumb decisions when it comes to men. 
This left them with lots of heartache, loneliness(since they wouldn't move on), and very single for a very long time.

Here are some tips
1. Don't choose you man based on how hot he is or how much money he makes. Doing this could mean ending up with a man cheating on you, or a man so busy with his work he never has time for you or your children.
Don't select a guy for the wrong reasons!
Also, most often your true intentions will surface. You can't fake love - and the more time goes on and you hit really touch times, the more it's hard to stay in a relationships sans love.


2. Don't expect your man to be your whole life.
This will mean  high expectations for him, and for you in the end unhappiness. This means you should find out who you are, and be solid in yourself before expecting a man to fulfill you.
Become an individual and be proud of who you are!

3.Be CHOOSY!! 
Additionally, picking anyone and then wanting marriage quickly is a huge turn off for a guy. They want to know they are special, not just someone you can make babies with.


4.Staying in a bad relationship/situation
This is a huge dumb dumb move.
You see girls think that although right now they are mistreated or he's too busy or he doesn't want to marry or he's an alcoholic, means that "ONE DAY" he won't. 


Sorry girl. That's just not the way life works.

This is how you end up still single and lonely, because you didn't move on to a man who doesn't love you.

You have got to mentally realize that if he's doing this now he will likely be doing the same thing to you (99.999999999999999999999999999999999% likelihood, and yes this is very scientific) years from  now.

Additionally, the more he mistreats  you and the more you put up with it, the more he doesn't respect you and really doesn't fall in love.

Conclusion: KNOW WHEN TO LEAVE 

5.  Sex DOES NOT EQUAL love (Sex != Love) 
This means that just cuz he's loves getting in the sheet with you doesn't mean he want to be your boyfriend, husband, or the father of your kids.