First, Know what Real Love is

Real Love is:

Kind
Patient
Humble
Thoughtful
Sincere
Generous
Positive  and Uplifting
Caring


Does your guy have the above attributes toward you? These are signs that he loves you.


These are NOT signs of love

Rude (Some women just think that's the way he is, and he does it to everyone. YUCK! When you demand respect, guess what - you get it!)
Selfishness (He doesn't offer to help you carry in the groceries, help you to move, or build your IKEA desk)
Guilt (He makes you feel bad about what you are not or what you did not do for him)
Abusive (this should be obvious. But just to be sure everyone understand if a guy is putting you down, he doesn't love you -- whether this is physical or mental)


Some final notes:
1. Don't devalue yourself. The more you think less of yourself , the more a man will.
2. Build yourself up. Have a life. Have other activities. He doesn't need to be the *only* thing in your life. That's just BORING and leads to low self esteem and unhealthy relationships
3. Be able to walk away. If you are not being loved, you should tell him what you need. If he doesn't try to meet your (reasonable ) requests. Don't live miserably -- keep on trucking for a new man!

Hugs to the ladies of the worrrld!

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

He said you mean the world to me

Here's a reader questions: What does it mean when a man says "you mean the world to me"? A man who tells you he thinks the world of you (and means it) truly cares for you! You are his everything and you deeply mean a lot to him. Consider this one of biggest compliments a man could give you! A man who loves you deeply says: "You mean the world to me", "I cherish you" and "You are important to me". The thought of losing you would bring great sadness into his life! He admires you, cares for you, respects you and loves you very deeply! Remember to always be sure to check his actions with his words! Do not let a guy express his "love" only through his words. Always be sure he is treating you respectfully and affectionately. Good luck to all you ladies of the world!
Read more

Intense Feelings and Signs of Deep Love

Here are a few examples of deep intensive and perhaps obsessive love: 1. They are (sexually) possesive 2. They have an intense longing and craving  to be with you emotionally, not just physically/sexually 3. Obsession -- they think about you a lot -- day and night 4. They would die for you 5. You are the center of their world 6. They find no (or very little) fault in you 7. They feel a rush from you 8. When they are or feel rejected -- they are deeply sad and experience a great deal of pain 9. They believe you are different from every woman that exists. 10. They become very moody -- when things don't appear to work out with you they have a great sadness, and they are very happy/high when things are going well with you. from Love Anthropologist Helen Fisher
Read more

Stupid things you do that makes him not love you

I highly recommend checking out the book " 10 WAYS THAT WOMEN MESS UP THEIR LIVES" I know some highly intelligent women who have made some seriously dumb decisions when it comes to men.  This left them with lots of heartache, loneliness(since they wouldn't move on), and very single for a very long time. Here are some tips 1. Don't choose you man based on how hot he is or how much money he makes. Doing this could mean ending up with a man cheating on you, or a man so busy with his work he never has time for you or your children. Don't select a guy for the wrong reasons! Also, most often your true intentions will surface. You can't fake love - and the more time goes on and you hit really touch times, the more it's hard to stay in a relationships sans love. 2. Don't expect your man to be your whole life. This will mean  high expectations for him, and for you in the end unhappiness. This means you should find out who you are, and be solid in yourself
Read more