Does He Love Me?

I highly recommend checking out the book " 10 WAYS THAT WOMEN MESS UP THEIR LIVES" I know some highly intelligent women who have made some seriously dumb decisions when it comes to men.  This left them with lots of heartache, loneliness(since they wouldn't move on), and very single for a very long time. Here are some tips 1. Don't choose you man based on how hot he is or how much money he makes. Doing this could mean ending up with a man cheating on you, or a man so busy with his work he never has time for you or your children. Don't select a guy for the wrong reasons! Also, most often your true intentions will surface. You can't fake love - and the more time goes on and you hit really touch times, the more it's hard to stay in a relationships sans love. 2. Don't expect your man to be your whole life. This will mean  high expectations for him, and for you in the end unhappiness. This means you should find out who you are, and be solid in yourself ...

Does your man bundle you up with his arms, or sing your praises in front of his parents, or brag about you in front of his friends? Does he tell you how beautiful, fun, and precious you are to him? Sometimes are you surprised by how much affection he gives to you? Since you have known him -- has the way you look at yourself, calmed you and made you feel more appreciative and accepting of who you are? If you can answer yes to the above questions, your man knows how to love you well. On the other hand, after being in a relationship, do you feel less confident, less beautiful , more insecure, hollow , and still wondering if he is right for you? This is likely a sign of an unhealthy relationship and that he doesn't really love you or perhaps the two of you are not compatible. Do you find yourself crying regularly after seeing him, because his words hurt you like a knife? Does he tell you that you need to change the way you act, or talk or the way you dress because it isn'...

If your guys is *always* too busy for you, he doesn't plan special dates, plan get aways, plan for your birthday, plan to make time to meet you family or friends, it's a sign he doesn't really love you. When you don't get time with your man, you are not a priority. A man who loves you WANTS to be by your side! He Fights to be near you and will do everything in his power to squeeze you into his schedule because he doesn't want you to disappear! Keep in mind TIMING is huge. If he is starting school, a new job, and he's very busy -- your relationship may be placed in the back burner, even so he should make time for you. Be up front with your man and see what happens! If you find your man too busy, be honest with him and see what happens. See if he will adjust his behavior and make improvements.

When you begin to fall in love, you overlook his nasty habits. Smoking, heavy drinking, or the fact that he's a workaholic. At first, these habits may not be obvious and they are tolerable, he may even hide them for you. However, as you progress in the relationship, you will begin to see his weaknesses (and he will see yours) . There may come a point where you realize that these bad habits are destructive and you cannot put up with it anymore. You give him an ultimatum. Either stop this behavior or else. Well, of course he can't just wake up one day, snap his finger and drop his routine! But what I will say is that a man says to you that he is willing to  examine himself , trust what you are saying and seek out help or adjust his behavior, this is a sign of his love for you. A guy that is willing to make behavioral changes for you, cares about you deeply.

1. You laugh a lot together When you are with him, you have a great time, constantly joking around or acting silly. You could laugh for hours with him, and he always keeps you smiling. You "get" each other - your sense of humor is similar. 2. You feel comfortable in his arms When he holds you close, it feels right. You feel relaxed, calm, and at peace. It feels right. 3. He looks you in the eyes When he talks to you - he looks at you in the eyes. He eyes are truthful and fair - they echo the love in his heart. 4. You want to please him When it makes you happy to sacrifice for him, when you get joy out of surprising him. When you put own needs aside for him. 5. He wants to please you Your favorites appear - he knows what you love, and tries to give you those things.

Crazy Women Crazy Women are high maintenance, demanding women who freak out when they feel they aren't getting what they deserve. They require a lot of attention, love and assurance. They are often very insecure that the man will leave them or they might feel their man isn't good enough, and they consider leaving him for someone bettr. They are used to getting what they want and they were likely were spoiled as children. When they don't get what they expect, they lash out with fits of verbal abuse. They may scream at the top of their lungs, cry, and say some of the cruelest words to their man. In turn, the man of course lashes out as well, feels unloved and hurt, and he may in fact lose some love for that women each time she has an "episode". How to not be a "crazy women" -- don't be a drama queen! Being a drama queen is a sign of immaturity, little or no self control and selfishness. Crazy women are a waste of energy. They haven't figu...

Have you ever stopped and wondered why none of your relationships have worked out? Do you always blame the guy? He was always busy. He was too boring. He was selfish. He was cheap. He wasn't committing. Did you ever consider the problems you had -- you might have contributed to or caused? Here are a few examples He's cheap. He didn't take me out enough -- Well, were you cheap? Were you generous with him? Or did you always expect him to pay for everything? It's not just about you! If you want an equal partnership, taking him out and surprising him with gifts is a way to have a fantastic relationship. When you are generous with him, he will want to be generous too. He was always busy -- were YOU not busy enough? Did you just come home and watch TV and  wait for him to call? Wake Up, girl! Live your life! Life is a lot more fun when you plan activities with and without a man. Have a girls night out, volunteer, take a spanish class. Get off your buns and have...