Does He Love Me?

Some people will take any kind of love. They are not selective enough and end up in abusive or emotionally painful relationships. Or they end up in relationships that are unbalanced. Choose to be alone rather than in an unhealthy relationship It is better for you to be alone, than in a relationship roller coaster ride. Life is more than just having a relationship. One reason why you want to seek out a healthy and positive relationship is because negative and destructive relationships will ruin other parts of your life. Worry will cause you loss of sleep, anxiety and put you in a bad mood. Stay away from these relationships . Some women think they will "fix" the man and have pity on him. Don't! Your job is not to save someone. You may get sucked into his mess, and end up messy yourself. Instead find a great guy that will care for you and respect you. When you are with a man who supports you and cares about you, then you don't have to wonder what he's doing or who h...

No. Run away quickly. Someone who cheats has terrible character. They are selfish and unloving and immature. They should remain single until they find someone they love and cherish. They likely had an influence (perhaps from their parents) that cheating was acceptable, but it is not. Cheating causes pain and anguish, someone who loves you would never even think of putting you through misery. Someone who cheats once, does not respect you and took the chance on your relationship.

In continuation of the previous blog: If you find that your man starts taking you for granted: Stand up for yourself If you feel that he is really good at taking, taking taking, but never giving, giving giving: Stand up for yourself. Everyone in the world can easily take another for granted, without even realizing it. It is important that you look at your situation and ensure that you also are getting want you need out of the relationship. How to stand up for yourself tips 1. Don't nag. If you are standing up for something minute or silly, DON'T. Pick and choose your battles, because you don't want to bicker about everything. 2. State the problem 3. Try not to get emotional about it, just simply state how you feel 4. State a solution. 5. Try to be specific. For example, "I feel that we need to talk more. I'd like to talk every other day for 5 minutes". 6. Tell him it is important to you. 7. Tell him you care about him and want this relationship to work, but th...

Don't Try So Hard Some women, when they have boyfriends do TOO much. Everything he asks for, she gives him. Whenever he states his opinion, she agrees. He calls, she runs to pick it up immediately. She always goes to *his* house, he never comes to hers. He asks her what she would like to do for a date, and she always replies "Whatever you want". This, ladies is BORING! Even when you are in a settled relationship, you should still be a bit of a challenge. Unpredictable sometimes! Even if he likes you at first, if you have nothing interesting to add to his life and you never challenge him, overtime, he may lose interest. If you are one of these girls, I challenge you: 1. To tell your man to come to your house tonight! 2. To find a spectacular restaurant you have never experienced, and suggest it 3. To make him wait a few hours until you call him back 4. To disagree with him and logically state your opinion (without starting a fight)

How can you tell if a man respects you? Read on to find out. A man who respects you treats you well and values you. In love, respect is critical. If there is little or no respect, over time you may become rude to one another, talk down to each other and destroy your relationship. Here are some ways a man displays his respect to you: 1. He treats you like a lady and wants to please you A man who respects you, is polite to you. Although chivalry may be dead, and may women shy away from it, your man will open doors for you, ask you if you 2. He doesn't try to force himself upon you (e.g. sleep with you) A man who respects you cherishes you. He isn't crass towards you, because is careful to not hurt you or turn you away. You can almost guarentee that when a man tries to get too physical too quickly , he really doesn't care much about you. This is especially true if he barely knows you. Many women mistakenly think that if they sleep with a guy, that man will fall in love with th...

Your girlfriends may be like you I am sure you have a few girlfriends. If you do, those girlfriends probably share some of your interests, or your personality. So, if you bring your guy around these other women, you should definitely watch how he reacts and treats them. If your man is attracted to you (because you are stunning, fun, and wonderful) then likely he could find your girlfriends likewise enjoyable to be around and he may even be physically attracted to them. Don't become jealous Keep your cool, because your friends should ultimately become friends with him as well. It is important to understand that although your boyfriend may find these girls appealing, he doesn't overly shower them with attention or seem to be flirting, out of respect for you. If you find him doing this, or if he ever were to come on to one of them, then it is important that you first confront him and second be very diligent to make sure that he is true to you. Remember that throughout your entire ...

When your man addresses you, is it endearing? Does he call you by names that make you feel special? Sweet Nicknames : My little sweety My honey Baby doll Boo Bear Resentful names If he is calling you by not so nice names: Hag, Nag, Witch then he is expressing to you some resentment. To him they may sound like a joke, but could be some issues under the surface that you aren't aware of. If you want a guy to fall in love and stay in love, you need to be the best woman you can be. No Nicknames If your man doesn't have any nicknames for you, it could be that he is still getting to know you, doesn't express himself this way, or he may not feel comfortable with you. If you want to encourage him to use these nicknames more, begin calling him by some and he should follow suit! Here is a site with some pet names you can use: Nicknames