Does He Love Me?

Does your man bundle you up with his arms, or sing your praises in front of his parents, or brag about you in front of his friends? Does he tell you how beautiful, fun, and precious you are to him? Sometimes are you surprised by how much affection he gives to you? Since you have known him -- has the way you look at yourself, calmed you and made you feel more appreciative and accepting of who you are? If you can answer yes to the above questions, your man knows how to love you well. On the other hand, after being in a relationship, do you feel less confident, less beautiful , more insecure, hollow , and still wondering if he is right for you? This is likely a sign of an unhealthy relationship and that he doesn't really love you or perhaps the two of you are not compatible. Do you find yourself crying regularly after seeing him, because his words hurt you like a knife? Does he tell you that you need to change the way you act, or talk or the way you dress because it isn'...

If your guys is *always* too busy for you, he doesn't plan special dates, plan get aways, plan for your birthday, plan to make time to meet you family or friends, it's a sign he doesn't really love you. When you don't get time with your man, you are not a priority. A man who loves you WANTS to be by your side! He Fights to be near you and will do everything in his power to squeeze you into his schedule because he doesn't want you to disappear! Keep in mind TIMING is huge. If he is starting school, a new job, and he's very busy -- your relationship may be placed in the back burner, even so he should make time for you. Be up front with your man and see what happens! If you find your man too busy, be honest with him and see what happens. See if he will adjust his behavior and make improvements.

When you begin to fall in love, you overlook his nasty habits. Smoking, heavy drinking, or the fact that he's a workaholic. At first, these habits may not be obvious and they are tolerable, he may even hide them for you. However, as you progress in the relationship, you will begin to see his weaknesses (and he will see yours) . There may come a point where you realize that these bad habits are destructive and you cannot put up with it anymore. You give him an ultimatum. Either stop this behavior or else. Well, of course he can't just wake up one day, snap his finger and drop his routine! But what I will say is that a man says to you that he is willing to  examine himself , trust what you are saying and seek out help or adjust his behavior, this is a sign of his love for you. A guy that is willing to make behavioral changes for you, cares about you deeply.