Does He Love Me?

One excellent way to determine if you have a solid, loving man in your life is to watch other couples and compare. Examine those couples who are happy in their relationship and see how they treat each other. Here are a few examples of happy and loving couples: -- They enjoy being around each other -- They have other friends and hobbies -- They support each other -- They are kind to each other in front of others and alone -- They surprise each other -- They want to please the other partner -- They accept each other's weaknesses (bad habits, messy, unattractive qualities) -- They are generous and put the other person first -- Make special dates for each other to enjoy life Unhealthy couples: -- Make fun of/put down each other in front of others -- Are selfish and do not put each other first -- Try to control the other -- Are insecure -- Fight in front of others Rather obsess over whether he loves you, consider thinking about how you as a couple interact together t...

Here's a question from a user: What are some hiddens signs he loves you. Wondering if your office mate is really into you? Perhaps your fellow classmate has fallen head over heels in love, read on to discover! 1. You catch him staring If you ever look up at a man and he quickly looks away -- this could be a hidden sign he really cares for you, but does not want you to notice. He may find you incredibly beautiful to stare at, or he maybe mesmerized by your presence. 2. He hangs on your every word A guy who listens intently to what you say and wants to know more about you and  your thoughts --this is a sure sign he admires and even loves you. A man who deeply cares for a woman will be interested in her thoughts a feelings. He will want to know your interests, what makes you tick, and how he can get closer to you. Some men who  are incredibly shy may fear approaching you, but still desperately want to be in your arms! 3. He brings y...

Does He Love You For the wrong Reasons? Wrong reasons for him to love you and why. 1. He love you immediately because you're hot. A guy that falls quickly for looks without getting to know you, could likely do the same when the novelty runs out.  Usually these guys become bored over time and move along to the next sexy women. If a guy especially is not taking time the time to know you, but always wants to be physical. 2. He loves you because you play hard to get If you are good at playing the game well, or playing hard to get, well honey once  you try to turn your game into a real relationship, the fun may be over for him! So, if you are really looking for a solid relationship, stop playing games! But, don't be so easy that he doesn't think you are a catch! 3. He loves you because you are powerful/have money/are well connected. A guy that "loves" you because you have a stable job, are well off , or know people - watch out! What happens if suddenly you a...

Here's a male's perspective on jealousy: Does He Love Me if he is never jealous? I would say he can most certainly love you if he is never jealous.  Of course I’m generalizing here, but often times jealousy is something that presents itself when that person has an insecurity within him or herself.  For example, if a guy is jealous when his girlfriend is hit on, may deep down feel inadequate about something and thus, not feel worthy of this girlfriend.  This insecurity manifests as jealousy as he is perhaps worried he’ll lose his girl to a more ‘worthy’ male or someone he perceives doesn’t have the flaws he is insecure about. So perhaps this person’s boyfriend is very secure with himself, loves his relationship, and loves his girlfriend.  Of course, every situation is on a case by case basis so this could very well not be true.  But it COULD be true, and that is the crux of the question. My boyfriend doesn't want to do anything together- Does he love me? M...

Here is a reader question: Does he want get serious? Here are five signs he's getting serious about you. 1. He talks about your future together. He talks about future events you will attend together (these may be months away). He will send you information on future weddings of his friends, discuss a holiday visit with the family, a lake trip with friends. He may talk about where he wants to live years from now, gauging your reaction or how he pictures a future life(with you). 2. He takes it slow. A guy that sees you in his future won't try to get in your panties quickly. He is respectful and takes his time. He wants to get to know your character and your personality over the curves of you body. He isn't putting the moves on you, but instead enjoying your company. 3. He opens up. A guy that will tell you about his frustrations with his life is opening his heart to you. A man this is becoming vulnerable with you, is a sign ...

If doesn't love me now, will he love me later? One point I would like to make is that some women (and numerous friends of mine) thought if a guy wasn't that into them, they could hold on long enough, and eventually he'll "see the light" and fall in love. I say: NOT TRUE! Do not be the girl that holds on so tight, hoping he will eventually fall in love with you if you call him, tell him how much you care for him or always are there for him when he needs you. Don't chase a man! When a guy falls for you. You don't have to prove you can do all these great things: cook a mad casserole, dress like Victoria Beckham, recite the encyclopedia, sing like Beyonce. Sometimes, love can't be explained! Why he falls in love with your classmate, or colleague over you - the mystery may never be solved. But one thing is for sure, if he doesn't really care for you now, he likely won't in 2 months, 2 years, or 2 decades. If he doesn't want you - get ...

Here is a reader question: Does He Love Me if he is never jealous? Here are some thoughts: 1. A highly jealous partner can destroy a relationship 2. People who feel confident and secure in a relationship will trust their partner. 3. At the early stages of a relationship, insecurity and lack of history/knowledge of your partner could lead to jealousy. 4. If someone isn't afraid to lose you/doesn't care much about your relationship, they will likely not experience jealousy. 5. Jealousy is really just a reflection of insecurity/immaturity in the relationship. 6.  If you date all sorts of men, you will find: some men are easily jealous while others may never express these emotions. 7. People who are mature and love their partner deeply, want to give security to their partner (and do not want their partner to feel jealous). 8. There are some people who want to draw attention to themselves and make their partner jealous, so they can be sure their partner cares for...

Here's a question from the reader: Why do i feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me Here are two possibilities Explanation 1. Your gut is saying something: Listen Carefully! Always always always follow your gut when it comes to men. If you feel a man is not genuine, caring or  you are being used, then clearly there is something wrong with the situation. When a man loves you, you should feel peace, comfort and acceptance. Building Trust at First Now, if you are at the early stages of your relationship, you may have doubts while you build trust and learn who he really is, but over time his actions should show you that you can trust him and he wants to be with you. If over time, you do not feel he treats you well, then you should really sit down and speak with him about the matter. Perhaps he doesn't realize that you need extra attention. If a man loves you, he wants to make you feel loved. If he doesn't want to talk about this matter, or does nothing to change,...

A guy that is getting to know and care for you may test you to quickly determine who you really are. If you care about this man, be sure you pass the tests! 1.He'll test to know your limits Perhaps he may say something offensive to see how you react. He may make a rude comment to see if you agree, or you will stand up and speak your mind. A strong man wants a strong woman who can stand up for herself and her beliefs. - Do you have confidence in yourself? - Will you agree with everything he says? 2. He'll test to see your interest in other men Perhaps he will ask you if you think another man is good looking, or you think another man is funny or interesting. He may be testing to see how you feel about him and see if he is desirable to you. A man who thinks you may be "the one" will want to know you want him and only him. He doesn't want to feel you may have feelings for other men. - Do you flirt with other men in public? - Do you need attention from oth...