tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-63882222362586119112024-03-13T02:45:54.221-07:00Does He Love Me?-- Signs he loves you
-- Signs he does not love you
-- Tips on having a healthy relationshipUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger106125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-29323516250721273442012-02-25T12:26:00.001-08:002012-03-20T20:54:50.731-07:005 simple ways to make him love you even more<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
1. Give him space<br />
Don't be one of those naggy girlfriends who needs to see and hear from him everyday. Get your own damn life! If you've got your own stuff going on, you are going to be so much more sexy! Please you will have more to talk about and it will keep your spark alive.<br />
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2. Make his life more interesting<br />
A man can appreciate a woman he can learn from. Before you meet with him, read something interesting: a news article, or a fact about one his favorite sports. If he loves cars, learn some facts about the most expensive car in the world OR the fastest car in the world<br />
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3. Compliment Him (but don't overdo it)<br />
There is nothing more sexy than a woman who says to a man, "You make me a better person" OR "Wow, you look sexy today" or "You give good advice".This boost his self esteem and he will want to be around you more!<br />
Oh ya and make sure it is genuine. Don't come across as fake: that's a major turn off.<br />
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4. Pull out your credit card<br />
Pay for the bill, ladies!<br />
Think about it, what kind of idiot guy would want to pay for all your crap all the time? A guy can really fall for a girl that is willing to pull her part in the relationship and that includes financially. Make it clear that you like when he takes you out, but also surprise him with a special place he's never been.<br />
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5. Be a lady<br />
When you respect yourself, he will respect you. Say "Please" and "Thank you". Let others go before you. Dress elegantly when you see him. Buy quality clothes that last. Have an opinion but don't get angry if he doesn't agree. Hug him when you see him. Smile. Don't be lazy. Take care of yourself. Get facials. When you look beautiful for him, it shows you care for him as well. When you show him you love him, he will love you even more.<br />
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Lots of Love to the Ladies of the World!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-5144687652144580972012-02-25T12:07:00.002-08:002012-04-30T19:50:02.557-07:00Marry someone less attractive than you!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
So, I love doing research -- especially when it comes to relationships and marriage. I found an interesting article that you should all pay attention to:<br />
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http://web.knoxnews.com/pdf/040208marriage-attractivenessstudy.pdf<br />
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Celine Dion is way hotter than her hubby. But guess what -- she's in love and he treats her like a queen!!<br />
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Basically here's the conclusion: The more attractive the wife is compared to the husband, the happier the marriage. Perhaps this could be that an attractive man feels he can find something better elsewhere, whereas a man that is less attractive is appreciative and more supportive of the wife. He thinks, "I've got to treat this woman right or she'll be out of here".<br />
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Likewise, because a woman may not put as much emphasis on physical attraction, to her having a supportive, attentive husband makes her a very happy lady! Her (less attractive) husband is more positive and accepting of her, she in turn is more supportive and loving towards him.<br />
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Now this is very interesting. It basically implies if you want a happy marriage, then marry someone uglier than you! This doesn't mean marry someone ugly. It means marry someone less attractive than you. In 5 years, what's going to matter isn't how well he photographs, and whether just his look sends chills down your spine. On the contrary what will matter is : Does he treat you well (and do you have the maturity level to appreciate it)<br />
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So, if you are in your 20s you might think, this is crazy -- I need to be with someone that is very good looking. But by the time you've had your heart broken a few times and you reach your late/early 30s you may begin to realize that having a positive healthy relationship is far more valuable than some tasty eye candy.<br />
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I hope you all consider this while dating and realize that if you really are in it for the long haul, then you should understand the implications of putting huge emphasis on good looks.<br />
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<div>Perhaps he slowly brushes your hair out of your face and looks you directly in the eyes; maybe when you are about to slip, reaches out to pull you up and save you from your fall.</div><div><br />
</div><div>He may even open doors, hold your hand to walk across the street, compliment your look, or give you a tender hug before saying good-bye at the airport. </div><div><br />
</div><div>It could be a very small gesture, but it displays what is going on in his heart!</div><div><br />
</div><div>On the other hand, if he is rough with you, easily angered, frustrated by little things like you being a few minutes late, or not buying the right kind of his favorite drinks - if he can be rough and unforgiving or he makes you carry the groceries and doesn't offer to help these are little signs his love for you isn't so great.</div></div><div><br />
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</div><div>I hope you all find a man who loves you deeply!</div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-48609226845998392992011-10-29T17:26:00.000-07:002011-10-29T17:35:01.833-07:00Signs you are meant to be together<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">5 few signs you were meant to be together.<br />
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1. Your sense of humor is similar. You get each other's jokes!<br />
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2. Similar Backgrounds (Educational, or Geographic). Although this isn't always the case, having a similar upbringing means you can relate to each other. You grew up in the same area, attended the same university, or you have mutual friends.<br />
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3. The relationship developed naturally. When relationships take little effort, they are often meant to be! You shouldn't have to wonder if he's the one, (because that means he isn't). You shouldn't be crying regularly over the relationship. You shouldn't have to force yourself out of guilt to stay with someone.<br />
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4. You value the same things. Is education extremely important to you? Or hanging out with friends? What about spending time with your parents? Maybe he likes to buy the finest clothes, and you are a cheap! If you both have similar core desires, this is a very good sign you are meant to be together.<br />
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5. Chemistry. You meet someone and it feels likes you've known them forever. You have a lot to talk about, and you find him very interesting. You feel drawn to each other, pulled together by an unexplainable force.<br />
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One of the best ways to better understand if your man loves you is to study healthy relationships.<br />
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- Have fun together</div><div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">- Communicate clearly, rather than argue they explain themselves<br />
- Respect each other <br />
- They give each other FREEDOM. (They don't try to control each other)<br />
- They put the other person first --<br />
- They are committed to each other</div><div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><br /></div><div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">Do you know healthy relationships are also good for your health?</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-47906996388360545232011-02-05T12:14:00.002-08:002011-02-05T12:14:51.599-08:00Stupid things you do that makes him not love you<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">I highly recommend checking out the book "<br />
<h2 class="title" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-style: inherit; font-weight: bold; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 8px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">10 WAYS THAT WOMEN MESS UP THEIR LIVES"</span></h2><div style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;">I know some highly intelligent women who have made some seriously dumb decisions when it comes to men.<br />
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</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">This left them with lots of heartache, loneliness(since they wouldn't move on), and very sad for a very long time.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">Here are some tips</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">1. Don't choose you man based on how hot he is or how much money he makes. Doing this could mean ending up with a man cheating on you, or a man so busy with his work he never has time for you or your children.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">Don't select a guy for the wrong reasons!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">Also, most often your true intentions will surface. You can't fake love - and the more time goes on and you hit really touch times, the more it's hard to stay in a relationships sans love.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><br />
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</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">2. Don't expect your man to be your whole life.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">This will mean high expectations for him, and for you in the end unhappiness. This means you should find out who you are, and be solid in yourself before expecting a man to fulfill you.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">Become an individual and be proud of who you are!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">3.</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;">Be CHOOSY!! </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">Additionally, picking anyone and then wanting marriage quickly is a huge turn off for a guy. They want to know they are special, not just someone you can make babies with.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><br />
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</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">4.Staying in a bad relationship/situation</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">This is a huge dumb dumb move.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">You see girls think that although right now they are mistreated or he's too busy or he doesn't want to marry or he's an alcoholic, means that "ONE DAY" he won't. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">Sorry girl. That's just not the way life works.</span></span><br />
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</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">This is how you end up still single and lonely, because you didn't move on to a man who doesn't love you.</span></span><br />
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</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">You have got to mentally realize that if he's doing this now he will likely be doing the same thing to you (99.999999999999999999999999999999999% likelihood, and yes this is very scientific) years from now.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">Additionally, the more he mistreats you and the more you put up with it, the more he doesn't respect you and really doesn't fall in love.</span></span><br />
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</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">Conclusion: KNOW WHEN TO LEAVE </span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">This means that just cuz he's loves getting in the sheet with you doesn't mean he want to be your boyfriend, husband, or the father of your kids.</span></span><br />
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<h2 class="title" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-style: inherit; font-weight: bold; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 8px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">10 WAYS THAT WOMEN MESS UP THEIR LIVES"</span></h2><div style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;">I know some highly intelligent women who have made some seriously dumb decisions when it comes to men. </div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">This left them with lots of heartache, loneliness(since they wouldn't move on), and very single for a very long time.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">Here are some tips</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">1. Don't choose you man based on how hot he is or how much money he makes. Doing this could mean ending up with a man cheating on you, or a man so busy with his work he never has time for you or your children.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">Don't select a guy for the wrong reasons!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">Also, most often your true intentions will surface. You can't fake love - and the more time goes on and you hit really touch times, the more it's hard to stay in a relationships sans love.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><br />
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</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">2. Don't expect your man to be your whole life.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">This will mean high expectations for him, and for you in the end unhappiness. This means you should find out who you are, and be solid in yourself before expecting a man to fulfill you.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">Become an individual and be proud of who you are!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">3.</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;">Be CHOOSY!! </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">Additionally, picking anyone and then wanting marriage quickly is a huge turn off for a guy. They want to know they are special, not just someone you can make babies with.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><br />
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</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">4.Staying in a bad relationship/situation</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">This is a huge dumb dumb move.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">You see girls think that although right now they are mistreated or he's too busy or he doesn't want to marry or he's an alcoholic, means that "ONE DAY" he won't. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><br />
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<h2 class="title" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 2em; font-style: inherit; font-weight: bold; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 8px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">10 WAYS THAT WOMEN MESS UP THEIR LIVES"</h2><div style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10px; line-height: 18px;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10px; line-height: 18px;">I know some highly intelligent women who have made some seriously dumb decisions when it comes to men. </div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">This left them with lots of heartache, loneliness(since they wouldn't move on), and very single for a very long time.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">Here are some tips</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">1. Don't choose you man based on how hot he is or how much money he makes. Doing this could mean ending up with a man cheating on you, or a man so busy with his work he never has time for you or your children.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">Don't select a guy for the wrong reasons!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">Also, most often your true intentions will surface. You can't fake love - and the more time goes on and you hit really touch times, the more it's hard to stay in a relationships sans love.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><br />
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</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">2. Don't expect your man to be your whole life.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">This will mean high expectations for him, and for you in the end unhappiness. This means you should find out who you are, and be solid in yourself before expecting a man to fulfill you.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">Become an individual and be proud of who you are!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;"><br />
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Does he tell you how beautiful, fun, and precious you are to him? Sometimes are you surprised by how much affection he gives to you? Since you have known him -- has the way you look at yourself, calmed you and made you feel more appreciative and accepting of who you are?<br />
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If you can answer yes to the above questions, your man knows how to love you well.<br />
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On the other hand, after being in a relationship, do you feel less confident, less beautiful , more insecure, hollow , and still wondering if he is right for you? This is likely a sign of an unhealthy relationship and that he doesn't really love you or perhaps the two of you are not compatible.<br />
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Do you find yourself crying regularly after seeing him, because his words hurt you like a knife?<br />
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Does he tell you that you need to change the way you act, or talk or the way you dress because it isn't acceptable -- and he isn't sweet about his comments? Does he tell you that you aren't very smart, or you are fat, or you are boring? This is a YUCKY man - you should flee!!!<br />
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Also, are your friends, parents, co-workers telling you that he doesn't appreciate you, or doesn't deserve you (given you trust their opinion and know they love you dearly?)<br />
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If you feel more negative since you've been together, well honey you might want to reconsider a future with this man!<br />
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Hugs to the world!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-76457965971975483852011-01-02T21:08:00.000-08:002011-01-02T21:08:17.850-08:00He's Too Busy??!!If your guys is *always* too busy for you, he doesn't plan special dates, plan get aways, plan for your birthday, plan to make time to meet you family or friends, it's a sign he doesn't really love you.<br />
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When you don't get time with your man, you are not a priority. A man who loves you WANTS to be by your side! He Fights to be near you and will do everything in his power to squeeze you into his schedule because he doesn't want you to disappear!<br />
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Keep in mind TIMING is huge. If he is starting school, a new job, and he's very busy -- your relationship may be placed in the back burner, even so he should make time for you.<br />
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Be up front with your man and see what happens!<br />
If you find your man too busy, be honest with him and see what happens. See if he will adjust his behavior and make improvements.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-20135072993227692612011-01-02T20:32:00.000-08:002011-01-02T20:32:48.439-08:00He loves you when he's on the path to improvementWhen you begin to fall in love, you overlook his nasty habits. Smoking, heavy drinking, or the fact that he's a workaholic. At first, these habits may not be obvious and they are tolerable, he may even hide them for you. However, as you progress in the relationship, you will begin to see his weaknesses (and he will see yours) .<br />
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There may come a point where you realize that these bad habits are destructive and you cannot put up with it anymore. You give him an ultimatum. Either stop this behavior or else.<br />
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Well, of course he can't just wake up one day, snap his finger and drop his routine! But what I will say is that a man says to you that he is willing to examine himself , trust what you are saying and seek out help or adjust his behavior, this is a sign of his love for you.<br />
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A guy that is willing to make behavioral changes for you, cares about you deeply.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-35359596975920698722010-12-26T18:22:00.000-08:002012-02-25T12:10:48.720-08:005 signs you were meant to be together<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
1. You laugh a lot together<br />
When you are with him, you have a great time, constantly joking around or acting silly. You could laugh for hours with him, and he always keeps you smiling.<br />
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You "get" each other - your sense of humor is similar.<br />
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2. You feel comfortable in his arms<br />
When he holds you close, it feels right. You feel relaxed, calm, and at peace. It feels right.<br />
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3. He looks you in the eyes<br />
When he talks to you - he looks at you in the eyes. He eyes are truthful and fair - they echo the love in his heart.<br />
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4. You want to please him<br />
When it makes you happy to sacrifice for him, when you get joy out of surprising him. When you put own needs aside for him.<br />
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5. He wants to please you<br />
Your favorites appear - he knows what you love, and tries to give you those things.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-29512896659413399912010-12-26T11:12:00.000-08:002010-12-26T11:16:14.432-08:00Crazy Women that Can't Get Their Relationships To WorkCrazy Women<br />
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Crazy Women are high maintenance, demanding women who freak out when they feel they aren't getting what they deserve. They require a lot of attention, love and assurance.<br />
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They are often very insecure that the man will leave them or they might feel their man isn't good enough, and they consider leaving him for someone bettr. They are used to getting what they want and they were likely were spoiled as children.<br />
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When they don't get what they expect, they lash out with fits of verbal abuse. They may scream at the top of their lungs, cry, and say some of the cruelest words to their man.<br />
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In turn, the man of course lashes out as well, feels unloved and hurt, and he may in fact lose some love for that women each time she has an "episode".<br />
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How to not be a "crazy women" -- don't be a drama queen! Being a drama queen is a sign of immaturity, little or no self control and selfishness. Crazy women are a waste of energy. They haven't figured out that life wasn't just meant for their own happiness, but instead life is about the love you give to others. <br />
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If you feel "crazy woman" coming on, take a few minutes to relax (or hours). Then, calmly write down why you have been hurt or upset. Then ask your man if you could discuss a matter when you have digested your pain and calmed down.<br />
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Then say "Honey, I really wish next time ..."<br />
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Eventually men get sick of drama queens and dump them, preferring stability and calmness over the crazy roller coaster relationship.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-54804174530817067842010-12-26T10:41:00.000-08:002010-12-26T10:41:17.377-08:00What's Your Problem? Examine Your own Issues.Have you ever stopped and wondered why none of your relationships have worked out?<br />
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Do you always blame the guy?<br />
He was always busy.<br />
He was too boring.<br />
He was selfish.<br />
He was cheap.<br />
He wasn't committing.<br />
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Did you ever consider the problems you had -- you might have contributed to or caused?<br />
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He's cheap. He didn't take me out enough -- Well, were you cheap? Were you generous with him? Or did you always expect him to pay for everything? It's not just about you! If you want an equal partnership, taking him out and surprising him with gifts is a way to have a fantastic relationship. When you are generous with him, he will want to be generous too.<br />
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He was always busy -- were YOU not busy enough? Did you just come home and watch TV and wait for him to call? Wake Up, girl! Live your life! Life is a lot more fun when you plan activities with and without a man. Have a girls night out, volunteer, take a spanish class. Get off your buns and have a life besides him. If all you did outside of work was spend time with your man, your relationship would become stale. You need more than just work and a man~<br />
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He was too boring! Well, how exciting are you? Did you ever crack a joke, or plan a fabulous date? Did you ever suggest something spontaneous?<br />
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He wasn't loving. Well, how loving were you? Did you initiate being loving and thoughtful, or did you hold back , thinking that he would prove to let you down. So , you held up your guard and waited for him to screw up?<br />
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The conclusion:<br />
BE the best in the relationship first, before looking around for the "perfect" man.<br />
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Much love to the ladies of the worldUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-81595894360552190622010-11-26T19:30:00.000-08:002010-11-26T20:01:05.825-08:00Major doubts before walking down the aisle?I once met a man who had just proposed to girlfriend after dating a few years. I asked him if he was excited to be married, and he replied , "She will make a good first wife". Not surprisingly, two years later, they had a bitter divorce. He was left emotionally scarred and financially devastated.<br />
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Before marrying her, he admitted to having doubts about their relationship. They tended to fight a lot and their compatibility was questionable, but because they had already been dating for a few years - he thought the next sensible step was marriage.<br />
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He had doubts before the marriage, but completely ignored the little voice.<br />
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Another great example of this is Jenny Sanford and her cheating husband Mark Sanford. <br />
He didn't want to promise faithfulness before marrying her:<br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;">"Mark told me that he didn’t want to use a wedding vow that included the promise to be faithful. He was worried in some odd nagging way, he said, that he might not be able to remain true to that vow.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;"> "</span><br />
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1. Show him love and affection when you need something.<br />
2. Ask him in a loving manner for your requests. For example "Honey, Do you think you could" "Baby, can you help me with"<br />
3. Remember that if you must be forceful in a relationship, it probably isn't meant to be. If you struggle a lot and feel that it causes you suffering, you should free yourself of it. This doesn't mean a relationship doesn't take work and sacrifice. It most definitely does! However, if you are constantly need to ask for love, and he doesn't give this freely, then you may be hoping to have it forever.<br />
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This last point is important. Too many women put up and try so hard, and complain when they aren't getting what they want, in hopes he would change over the years. Sorry sweetheart, but it rarely does. Instead , try to find a relationship that is natural and where you don't need to force a man to love you by begging.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-13089689579328481472010-10-30T10:53:00.000-07:002010-10-30T10:53:20.291-07:00Your complaints crumble the relationship (nagging destroys)Nagging doesn't get you more love. Complaining that he doesn't spend enough time with you, that he is not affectionate, or you want to know if you will have a future together -- doesn't get you where you want to be.<br />
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Instead:<br />
1. Show he love and affection for no reason.<br />
2. Ask him in a loving manner for your requests. For example "Honey, Do you think you could" "Baby, can you help me with"<br />
3. Remember that if you must be forceful in a relationship, it probably isn't meant to be. If you struggle a lot and feel that it causes you suffering, you should free yourself of it. This doesn't mean a relationship doesn't take work and sacrifice. It most definitely does! However, if you are constantly need to ask for love, and he doesn't give this freely, then you may be hoping to have it forever.<br />
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This last point is important. Too many women put up and try so hard, and complain when they aren't getting what they want, in hopes he would change over the years. Sorry sweetheart, but it rarely does. Instead , try to find a relationship that is natural and where you don't need to force a man to love you by begging.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-25096193558980518142010-10-21T20:47:00.000-07:002010-10-21T20:47:31.090-07:00You are only his "Lady Friend"Ok - Big wake up call. If a guy isn't calling you his girlfriend, but his 'lady friend', this is a sign he doesn't want to really be with you, and doesn't love you. You are like a used beat up car -- convenient for the time being and fulfills his basic needs -- until he finds the more classy, expensive upgrade automobile of his dreams, then he won't need to drive you around anymore.<br />
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Do not wait around for a guy like this! The fact that you stick around and put up with this status, is enough for a guy to not respect you. He's likely flirting with other women on the side -- at work, or at bars, and doesn't want to feel bad/guilty about it, so that's why he doesn't officially make you his girlfriend.<br />
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Get a clue. If he isn't locking you down then stop wasting your time.<br />
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Why doesn't he want you?<br />
You may not be the one for him. His timing may be off, or he's just too damn immature to realize how awesome you are. Whatever the case, don't feel bad! Tell him you are looking for a man that wants to be dedicated to you and stop calling him! Get some self esteem, woman!<br />
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Best of luck to the women of the world!!!!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-80556526054972181762010-10-12T19:50:00.000-07:002010-10-12T19:52:41.246-07:00Relationships Are Like Jobs ( Sometimes)A relationship can be compared to a job/career and here's why:<br />
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1. When you are interviewing for a job --it is thrilling and exciting. During the interview process you wonder, will they like you? Will they call you back? You may meet several people and hiring managers that decide whether you are good enough, smart enough, or worthy of their company. You worry over whether you will land the offer and be hired.<br />
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Likewise, with a guy during your dating period, you wonder if he will continue seeing you and eventually, ask you to be his woommman!!!<br />
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2. When you apply for a job you may be "overqualified" for, you are applying for a guy that maybe you are out of his league??? But if you love the job and what you will be doing -- then that's your decision and you are the one that will live with it. (Not the people who judge you)<br />
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OR you apply for a job that you are NOT qualified for (date a man that is out of your league) and perhaps it works out beautifully.<br />
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3. After 6 months to 1 year on the job -- you "get to know it more" . Parts of it are predictable and mundane. Sometimes new situations come up, but for the most part you realize there are challenges you face.<br />
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4. After a year, you may want to continue with the company (your boyfriend) or start looking elsewhere -- you are young, so not quite ready to commit. Or, you are older, and know that this is stable and reliable, so you don't want to take your chances and jump ship with a good situation.<br />
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5. Or: perhaps you found the perfect job (perfect boyfriend) over time it gets better and better and you improve in your skills -- love your boss and co-workers and<br />
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Here's the conclusion:<br />
Find a good job/career/man/business that you enjoy. Know that there will be good days/bad days and great moments and stressful moments. But, if you know what you have is wonderful and valuable. Don't give up on it!!! Stick with it and appreciate what you have -- grow (in the company) and in your relationship and have it flourish!<br />
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Best of luckUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-66309413735998784762010-10-11T21:03:00.000-07:002010-10-11T21:17:50.761-07:00First, Know what Real Love isReal Love is:<br />
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Kind<br />
Patient<br />
Humble<br />
Thoughtful<br />
Sincere<br />
Generous<br />
Positive and Uplifting<br />
Caring<br />
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Does your guy have the above attributes toward you? These are signs that he loves you.<br />
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These are NOT signs of love<br />
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Rude (Some women just think that's the way he is, and he does it to everyone. YUCK! When you demand respect, guess what - you get it!)<br />
Selfishness (He doesn't offer to help you carry in the groceries, help you to move, or build your IKEA desk)<br />
Guilt (He makes you feel bad about what you are not or what you did not do for him)<br />
Abusive (this should be obvious. But just to be sure everyone understand if a guy is putting you down, he doesn't love you -- whether this is physical or mental)<br />
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Some final notes:<br />
1. Don't devalue yourself. The more you think less of yourself , the more a man will.<br />
2. Build yourself up. Have a life. Have other activities. He doesn't need to be the *only* thing in your life. That's just BORING and leads to low self esteem and unhealthy relationships<br />
3. Be able to walk away. If you are not being loved, you should tell him what you need. If he doesn't try to meet your (reasonable ) requests. Don't live miserably -- keep on trucking for a new man!<br />
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Hugs to the ladies of the worrrld!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-12050862545280775202010-09-18T18:27:00.000-07:002010-09-18T18:28:33.976-07:00Not so bad traits - Tis better to have a solid, reputable man1. Predictable. He calls when he says he will.<br />
Shows he is thoughtful of you, and you can trust him.<br />
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2. Frugal<br />
This is a sign of maturity. Someone who can save for the future, and doesn't blow all his money on things.<br />
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3. Not the life of the party<br />
It's ok that he isn't the funniest, most exciting man in the world.<br />
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4. Quiet or shy<br />
Generally speaking quiet men can be sweet and wonderful.<br />
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5. Nerdy<br />
Nerdy can be solid and loyal!<br />
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Remember, look for character!!!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-37645350450962084502010-09-18T17:43:00.000-07:002010-09-18T17:43:49.168-07:00Engagement UltimatumsIs an engagement ultimatum appropriate?<br />
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Is it appropriate to say to your man:<br />
"..if you don't want to get engaged after 2 years of dating, then I will move on."<br />
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I think the answer (within reason) is an unequivocal YES. I know many stories of women who waited around 5, 7, 10 years for their man to propose, and guess what, he kept saying he would, and he didn't!!!<br />
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Eventually the girl left, broken hearted with many wasted years. She had to start ALL over again after investing so much time and was that awful.</div><br />
Don't let a man waste your time, silly girl!<br />
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If you are ready to marry, (and feel you know each other well and have dated extensively), if a guy wants to be with you, he doesn't need to throw the 1000 excuses book at you. What is also not very smart for women is to force/pressure/claw/whine their way into a proposal. This is also very silly. He may regret it later, and then you won't get the love you deserve, because it was under obligation.<br />
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Instead, if the relationship isn't going anywhere clearly - you aren't spending more time together, he isn't sure still if you are "the one" - then politely tell him that he can keep trying to figure it out, while you go on and find someone who is sure.<br />
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Most men would say ultimatums are a no-no. Men do not want pressure, they will recoil like a snail into their shell - the shell of non commitment. Instead, you should communicate to him openly how you feel about the situation in a non threatening, non bitchy, and mature manner. He will respect you for this approach.<br />
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If you check the relationship meter - as in, when you ask him if he wants to commit, if he isn't sure girl, don't stick around for too long.<br />
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Sure, there may be some people who are fine with never marrying, but if you are not that person, then make sure you don't stay with a man who feels this way.<br />
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My heart goes out to you lovely ladies.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-33221849323489665212010-09-18T17:24:00.000-07:002010-09-18T17:25:49.664-07:00The Not so Incredibly Changing ManHi Ladies,<br />
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Listen up. This is important.<br />
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Let's say you've been dating a man for awhile, and over time you notice he isn't the same man you used to know. His sweet, gentle and kind ways have become more critical, more unloving and more harsh. He used to be excited about you, and now, he's thoughtless. Additionally, he wants you to change as well.<br />
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Although change is inevitable, if he is changing for the worst, he may not have the maturity yet to be ready for a long term commitment or perhaps he doesn't love you after all - you are not the person he once that you to be.<br />
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When you are falling in love - things get better over time, not worse. Will you have difficulties? Yes. Will he change? Only naturally. But, if he is not the same man you used to know, and you find yourself gradually growing apart -- Watch Out! He is not yet solid in his person, and he still has some growing (and growing up) to do.<br />
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Perhaps taking a little break and letting him figure things out will be good for you and the relationship.<br />
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Good luck, ladies.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-74304148339341089242010-08-11T21:24:00.000-07:002010-08-11T21:24:54.606-07:005 Signs he is not in love (BIG RED FLAGS!!!)Here is a reader question: What are some signs he is not love:<br />
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1.He's not contacting you.<br />
You do all the calling and planning to get together. If you were to stop calling, emailing, texting, facebooking, you may never hear from him again.<br />
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2. He's not excited when he sees you -- (perhaps irritable when he sees you)<br />
When you plan to meet, he doesn't embrace you or kiss you. He doesn't look you in the eyes with love or passion or kindness.<br />
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3. He doesn't respect you.<br />
Love and respect go hand in hand. If he is putting you down, making fun of you, or you leave him feeling bad about yourself, then he probably doesn't respect you (and therefore doesn't love you)<br />
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4. He's not planning a future with you<br />
This could mean little plans: Like: what are you doing on Friday or Saturday (Here you hardly know each other, so these plans are probably very small.<br />
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Medium plans: Should we take a trip or vacation together. Or, will you fly with me to a lovely wedding or to meet my parents? Here you have been dating for a few months<br />
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Or bigger plans: Where do you want to live when you marry or How many kids to you want to have.(Here you are dating for more than a year or two)<br />
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5. He is self centered<br />
When a guy loves you -- he sacrifices for you. He wants you to be happy. This means he give you the last chicken wing or last slice of cheescake on the plate. This means he helps you fix things in your apartment when you ask him.<br />
Self centered guys are all about THEM they talk about themselves all the time, are not considerate of your time, things, or feelings.<br />
Do NOT date a self centered man! This leads to bad things/relationships!<br />
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Good luck beautiful ladies of the world!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388222236258611911.post-46497884057812333622010-08-05T19:34:00.000-07:002010-08-05T19:34:39.450-07:00Deciphering his Love Language<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;">If you want his love to blossom, you have to be sure you love him in the right manner.</span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;">Some men want to be loved by kisses and affection</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;">Some men want to be loved by praise and words</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;">Some men want to be loved by presents</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;">Some men want to be loved by action </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;">Some men want to be loved just by spending time with you</span></span></div><div>There is a book called 5 Love Languages that discuss the various ways individual want to be loved. </div><div>If you love each other the correct way, your relationship thrives.</div><div><br />
</div><div>If he asks you questions like, "Why don't you ever ...." (kiss me enough, talk to me when we are with friends, compliment me, etc) you are narrowing down his love language. If you want to have a great relationship, take a few notes, and be extra careful to express your love in that particular way.</div><div><br />
</div><div>Affection</div><div>Find out exactly what type of affection he prefers. Does he like public displays?(Some men may be irritated by this, while other could thrive. ) Does he want to cuddle or spoon? Does he like his face touched? Try a variety of affections, and figure out which want makes him say "ahhhhh" and there you go!</div><div><br />
</div><div>Praises</div><div>Some men want to be told how wonderful they are, or how smart they are, or how handsome they are, how strong they are, slim they are, fashionable, etc. Whereas some men hate to be praised! They think words are empty and meaningless. Listen to his reaction when you praise him: does he seem to laugh it off, or smile ever so greatly! This is how you determine his love language.</div><div><br />
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</div><div>Presents</div><div>Surprise him and pay for dinner and a movie, or buy him a little teddy bear, a new gadget or a car wash.</div><div><br />
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</div><div>Action/Service</div><div>This type of love is expressed by: cleaning his room, cooking him dinner, taking his dog for a walk, or washing his car by hand. It is your sign that you love him!</div><div><br />
</div><div>Time</div><div>This love language could simply be sitting on the couch and chatting, or going for a walk. IT could simply mean accompanying him to the grocery store -- just so you can be near</div><div><br />
</div><div>A good way to check his love language is see how he expresses love to you -- then do the same!</div><div><br />
</div><div>Find out his love language to improve your relationship!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0